And when you're more aroused, the pleasure is better for everyone.' 'When you're on top and you lean forward, the friction helps awaken the clitoral cluster. 'Being on top feels great for people with clitorises because over 70 percent of people with vulvas require external clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm,' she said. Plus it may help you reach orgasm more easily, says Reba Thomas, a sex educator and CEO of Sexpert Consultants, a company that specializes in adult sex health education. When those dominant feels strike, there's only one course of action to take: Get on top.Ī woman-on-top sex position will let you dictate the depth and angle of penetration, as well as the speed. Then there are those moments when you just want ~all~ the control.
On other occasions, you crave a kinky position, or one that lets your partner go really (really) deep. Other times you want to lie back and let your partner work their magic. Sometimes you want to have sex standing up.
